In our pursuit of perfect parenting, it's good to have a little perspective. Erik King gives just that in a Fatherly article that deserves resurrection.
I personally love theorizing about how I can get my kids to embrace their chores with all the zeal of a crow that's found fresh roadkill. But I'm way behind on making it happen.
In any case, this particular article is worth following down the click rabbit hole for a while. Please don't despair at what you're not doing right.